But this is still th' effect of wishing more. Unsatisfied with all that Nature brings; Loathing the present, liking absent things; From hence it comes, thy vain desires, at strife Within themselves, have tantaliz'd thy | life; And ghastly death appear'd before thy sight, Ere thou hadst gorg'd thy soul and senses with delight. 160 Now leave those joys, unsuiting to thy age, To a fresh comer, and resign the stage." Is Nature to be blam'd if thus she chide? No, sure; for 't is her business to provide, Against this ever-changing frame's decay, New things to come, and old to pass away. One being, worn, another being makes; Chang'd, but not lost; for Nature gives and takes: New matter must be found for things to come, And these must waste like those, and follow Nature's doom. 170 All things, like thee, have time to rise and rot; And from each other's ruin are begot: For life is not confin'd to him or thee; 'Tis given to all for use, to none for property. Consider former ages past and gone, Whose circles ended long ere thine begun, Then tell me, fool, what part in them thou hast. Thus may'st thou judge the future by the past. What horror see'st thou in that quiet state? What bugbear dreams to fright thee after fate? 180 The Sisyphus is he, whom noise and strife Seduce from all the soft retreats of life, 201 To vex the government, disturb the laws: Drunk with the fumes of popular applause, He courts the giddy crowd to make him great, And sweats and toils in vain, to mount the sovereign seat. For still to aim at pow'r, and still to fail, 210 Which urg'd, and labor'd, and forc'd up Then still to treat thy ever-craving mind This is the fable's moral, which they tell ever fill. As for the Dog, the Furies, and their snakes, The gloomy caverns, and the burning lakes, And all the vain infernal trumpery, 270 But still uncertain, with thyself at strife, Could find as well the cause of this unrest, Uncertain what to wish or what to vow. One, restless in his palace, walks abroad, And vainly thinks to leave behind the load; 280 But straight returns, for he's as restless there, And finds there's no relief in open air. And spurs as hard as if it were on fire; Why are we then so fond of mortal life, Beset with dangers, and maintain'd with strife? A life which all our care can never save; One fate attends us, and one common grave. Besides, we tread but a perpetual round; We ne'er strike out, but beat the former ground, And the same mawkish joys in the same track are found. For still we think an absent blessing best, Which cloys, and is no blessing when possess'd; A new arising wish expels it from the breast. 310 For fierce desire does all his mind employ, And her sweet name is chiming in your ears. But strive those pleasing phantoms to re move, And shun th' aërial images of love, That feed the flame: when one molests thy mind, Discharge thy loins on all the leaky kind; For that's a wiser way than to restrain Within thy swelling nerves that hoard of pain. 21 For every hour some deadlier symptom shows, And by delay the gath'ring venom grows, On that one object 't is not safe to stay, But force the tide of thought some other way; The squander'd spirits prodigally throw, And in the common glebe of nature sow. 30 Nor wants he all the bliss that lovers feign, Who takes the pleasure, and avoids the pain; For purer joys in purer health abound, And less affect the sickly than the sound. When love its utmost vigor does imploy, Ev'n then 't is but a restless wand'ring joy; Nor knows the lover in that wild excess, With hands or eyes, what first he would possess; But strains at all, and, fast'ning where he strains, 39 Too closely presses with his frantic pains; With biting kisses hurts the twining fair, Which shews his joys imperfect, unsincere: For, stung with inward rage, he flings around, And strives t' avenge the smart on that which gave the wound. But love those eager bitings does restrain, And mingling pleasure mollifies the pain. For ardent hope still flatters anxious grief, And sends him to his foe to seek relief: Which yet the nature of the thing denies; For love, and love alone of all our joys, 50 By full possession does but fan the fire; |