Among the bestial herds to range; by thee Relations dear, and all the charities Of father, son, and brother first were known— Perpetual fountain of domestic sweets!" MILTON. MARRIAGE. Marriage is with us "The holiest ordinance of God, whereon Love must be won by love, and heart to heart We pledge the marriage vow; and some there are, Who hold, that, ere we enter into life, Soul hath with soul been mated, each for each Especially ordained" SOUTHEY. MARRIAGE VOWS. The ring is on; The "wilt thou" answer'd, and again The "wilt thou" ask'd, till out of twain The sweet "I will" has made ye one. TENNYSON. THE HOLY VOW. The holy vow "And ring of gold, no fond illusion now, Till waked and kindled by the master spell; ROGERS. THE FIRST MARRIED PAIR. "Adam, live and be happy, and, with thy Eve, Were placed in Eden-choicest spot of earth With royal honour and with glory crowned; Of thought and comely words, to worship God O lovely, happy, blest, immortal pair! Shade after shade of deepening gloom descends; Who farther sings, must change the pleasant lyre "Not for the summer-hour alone, When skies resplendent shine, And youth and pleasure fill the throne, But for those stern and wintry days Of peril, pain, and fear, When heaven's wise discipline makes This earthly journey drear. Not for this span of life alone, And, like the transient flower of grass, But for a being without end, This vow of love we take : Grant us, O God! one home at last, For our Redeemer's sake." L. H. SIGOURNEY. OF MARRIAGE. "Seek a good wife of thy God, for she is the best gift of his providence ; Yet ask not in bold confidence that which he hath not promised: Thou knowest not his good will-be thy prayer, then, submissive thereunto; And leave thy petition to his mercy, assured that he will deal well with thee. If thou art to have a wife of thy youth, she is now living on the earth; Therefore think of her, and pray for her weal; yea, though thou hast not seen her. They that love early become like-minded, and the temper toucheth them not: They grow up leaning on each other, as the olive and the vine. Youth longeth for a kindred spirit, and yearneth for a heart that can commune with his own; He meditateth night and day, doting on the image of his fancy. Take heed that what charmeth thee is real, nor springeth of thine own imagination; And suffer not trifles to win thy love, for a wife is thine unto death. The harp and the voice may thrill thee, and sound may enchant thine ear, But consider thou, the hand will wither, and the sweet notes turn to discord: The eye, so brilliant at even, may be red with sorrow in the morning; And the sylph-like form of elegance must writhe in the crampings of pain. |